So Here is what I know of the wireing:
Top of stairs:
14/2 - Power/line in (Black is line, white is neutral)
14/3 - Goes to bottom stair switch (Black was on the common, white neutral, red traveler)
Bottom Stair:
14/3 - Goes to top of stairs (Black was on the common, white neutral, red traveler)
14/2 - To lights/Load
At this point I have to top working only, I think I need to purchase an "Add on" Switch for the bottom/second switch.
The top right now I have whites to neutral, black from 14/2 to to bottom line/load terminal, black from 14/3 to top line/load, red from 14/3 to the traveler terminal. Bottom I have whites to the neutral, blacks wire-nutted together, red to the traveler terminal of the smart switch.
Top and bottom right now have these:
https://www.zwaveproducts.com/collections/z-wave-in-wall-switches/products/ge-enbrighten-z-wave-plus-smart-switch-with-quickfit-simplewire-s2-and-smartstart-46201
This is showing I need the add on in the "load" location (this is also how I currently have it wired): https://byjasco.com/mwdownloads/download/link/id/2038/
As a side note I cannot get the ISY to see the switch. Instructions say I just have to turn it on or off for the controller to see it but When I try to add in ISY nothing shows up.