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I am fairly new to Insteon devices, but have so far had no problem making them do what I want. I have a universal Devices ISY. I am getting pretty good at configuring that box. Here is situation and problem: I have an Insteon 8 key 2334-222 keypad dimmer. I currently have it programmed to turn 7 different lights on/off by directly controlling Insteon Dimmer outlets 2472D. This works fine. I have button "H" set to turn ON / OFF the "Couch Light. (Toggle) I have an Insteon MiniRemotes 2342-222. I have one of button pairs set to turn ON / OFF the "Couch Light". What I want to do is to be sure that the "H" button on the 8 keypad turns on/off in sync with the "Couch Light" even if I turn the "Couch Light" on from the Mini-Remote. I can do this by creating a scene where the mini is the controller, and the "H" key and the "couch light" are responders. And this works OK. But the problem is when I have a scene that is an "All On" triggered from a mini-remote, I want to be sure that back light on each key on the 8 Key Pad stays in sync with the status if it's corresponding light (Responder). I have looked at the Back Light level programmatic control, but this seems to be just a way to set how bright the button is when the status is on or off. Not a way to actually turn the light on or off. Any ideas? Thanks, Michael