I could follow that schematic shown in the blog post that I referenced, and follow your instructions, if I new which were hot, neutral, travelers, coming from power, going to load, etc, but I don't... So to your questing asking if the load is managed at switch #1, I haven't a clue (I'm a software guy). And as for, "That's fine, no problem there." The problem is, I'm showing the old switches and am (obviously) clueless regarding installing the new switches. Thanks for the offer to help, but you're way over my head. I think Stu's reply might be close, but the thin wires are connected to the black screws... dunno how this changes things.