ok for the 3 way issue. I set kpla as controller for dimmer kitchen. I press kpla and kitchen dimmer is activated, led for kpl-a is lit.
when I goto the Kitchen dimmer and turn off the dimmer turns off but command back to Kpl-a does not shut off the LED its still in an on state.
I have set another scene that makes the dimmer as controller and kpl-a as responder to shut the led back off but wasnt sure if this was the way it has to be done.